3 Powerful Keys to Live your Best Sex Life
Are you living your best life? Living your best life involves, Excitement, Enlightenment, and Fulfillment.
And part of living your best life is living your best sex life!
Like many women, you may desire wellness and success in other areas of your life, such as your finances, health, career, parenting, personal style, family, etc. And that’s wonderful!
However, also like many women, your sex life may never be taken into consideration and it deserves no less, if not more attention and dedication, as any other area of your life. If this is a foreign or new concept, I am going to help you out a bit and share something special with you:
"3 Powerful Keys to Live your Best Sex Life."
1) The first powerful key is to Say "Yes" to Passion
Have you ever felt strong feelings or emotions about something? That’s passion. Webster defines passion as a strong or extravagant fondness, enthusiasm, or desire for anything. Passion pumps through your veins the same as the life force of energy. It is with you constantly but simply needs coercing out of its depths. You can do this by saying, “Yes, to passion!
How? Take some time to notice what you have a strong desire or intense feeling for. It could be helping others, dancing, writing, race car driving, taking risks, or anything that comes to your mind. Access it. Grab hold of it. Fold it into your heart. Then, do the same for your sexual passion; Access it, grab hold of it, fold it into your heart and say, “Yes, yes, yes”, over and over, until it becomes a natural part of you.
2) The second powerful key is to Use Mindfulness to Pilot the Body
Is the saying, “When your feet hurt you hurt” familiar to you? My sister and I have experienced this saying on many occasions, one in particular that we just call “The Boots.” I had a pair of black boots we both use to wear (we shared clothes and stuff), to match our outfits because we wanted to be cute.
These black boots were made of patent leather. Little did we know when they were exposed to the sun, they would start shrinking and tightening around our feet. They would get so tight we would have to take them off at some point during the day.
Although taking off the boots gave our feet tremendous relief, unfortunately, once out of the boots our feet would expand! So when it was time to put them back on, the pain was much worse, beating and numb. At that point our whole body was hurting and all we could think about was the pain. So, the boots dictated what we focused on; in other words, it directed our attention.
Mindfulness practices also directs your attention. Mindfulness is awareness and being able to stay in the moment; to focus your full attention on the present, and experience feelings and sensations. Unlike “The Boots”, with mindfulness you have control over your thoughts, what you focus on, and how it pilots your body. Allowing yourself to feel the sensations of sexual pleasure will promote more enjoyment in your intimate experiences.
3) The third powerful key is Don't Fake Orgasms, EVER!
Share with your guy that even though you don’t always experience an orgasm you still can enjoy the feelings, sensations, the closeness, and connected-ness with him; or just enjoy feeling him inside of you, you know that feeling of being filled up most women love. That by itself can feel very satisfying, in fact it can feel satisfying enough.
You may be one of the women who doesn’t desire sex much.” That may be a big part of why you may be faking it. And that’s ok because you are not by yourself.
One widely cited survey found that 80 percent of women admit to faking orgasms at least half the time, and another 25 percent fake it, 90 percent of the time. That tells you and me that something is just not quite right, and a lot of times it’s a lack of sexual knowledge or sex skills. And that can be easily remedied.
There is one more thing I want to point out why it’s not a good practice to fake orgasms: Because it locks you into a mindset of “this is just how it is” when it comes to your sexual experience. And thinking this way will indeed cut you off from learning anything new or practicing anything different that will move you toward the sexual pleasure you deserve and desire. Yes, I said deserve and desire.
So, if you want to live your best sex life start by practicing these 3 Powerful Keys, Saying Yes to Passion, Using Mindfulness to Pilot your Body, and Don’t Fake Orgasms, EVER! It will make a world of difference!
Hi there, this is Mavis. I help Christian Wives Create Phenomenal Sex Lives.
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“There’s no pleasure like the joy of being a sexual woman.” ~Fiona Thrus
